On Beauty: Class Notes

Do the people we love end up turning into objects for us? When we are in love with someone, some of that love can be attributable to their successes. It can be difficult to determine where the line is drawn between loving them and loving what it is they do. Sometimes the ones we love are objects in our minds. In college, it becomes the norm to ask, "What is your major?". It is as if we are asking what the person plans on doing with the rest of their life and how much they plan on making yearly. Sometimes I feel like we put people into categories and judge them based on things that maybe shouldn't even matter to begin with...

Beauty is about lines and colors and contours, it is what we see. As a culture, we tend to objectify it. What is the degree to which the notions of beauty are at war in the novel On Beauty? In this question, we are basically comparing the lines and contours etc. to society's idea of beauty. Jerome may have fallen in love with Veronica because of his family - not because of her physical beauty. Also, Kiki was beautiful when Howard first met her but according to Zora, she has since let herself go. Mrs. Kipps views Kiki as large but believes that she carries her weight well. Pg 90-91. Carl's body is also objectified in the novel.

Beauty tends to rip our culture apart.

The family goes to Mozart's Requiem - Howard becomes a parody machine. He makes fun of Mozart and Kiki's class but he is simultaneously loving towards his family. Jerome feels the complete opposite. This difference leads to an argument between Howard and Kiki (who is standing up for Jerome). The argument leads to the question: are there geniuses? Mozart died halfway through his creation and someone else had to finish it. Therefore, Kiki's argument that there must have been a genius making this music, has to be false.

Later in the novel, Kiki finds out that Howard had an affair with Claire. She realizes this on her own during their anniversary party. Also, the affair itself was not a one night stand, it was actually a three week long relationship between Howard and Claire. In terms of beauty and culture, Claire would typically be considered more beautiful than Kiki by American society as a whole. This is most likely what is so upsetting to Kiki. This comparison/difference may cause her to feel inferior to Claire and brings a new understanding as to why Howard would have chosen to have an affair on Kiki to begin with. It is also possible that the fact that Claire is on the same intellectual level as Howard makes Kiki even more angry with Howard. No matter what Howard's reason for cheating on Kiki was, it was the most heartbreaking thing he could have done to her. Choosing Claire, on top of everything else, makes it worse for Kiki who has decided to try and do the impossible: forgive Howard.